I'm glad the year is over. This hasn't been the kindest year to our family, financially. In the first half of the year we suffered through months of agony when it looked like my husband would lose his job. Then the company decided they'd keep him, but lowered his pay and took away his company car. So we scrambled to find a decent used car and now have the increased insurance/gas/upkeep of a second car, as well as car payments on a reduced income. Fun and games. It meant that Todd had to get a second job at night to pay for the car so it wouldn't be such a financial burden, and it meant little sacrifices, like curtailing our out-and-abouts and not going West to visit family this year, which made us sad. Poor Todd sleeps a lot when he is home, but he's actually having fun at his second job (he works in a bowling alley.) He likes it because it's a job he can leave at the door when he leaves for the night, unlike his full-time, day job. And fortunately, we've all been relatively healthy, aside from two rounds of throwing-up flu that swept through the children in the Spring and Fall and a few colds.
Book-wise, you can see from our Book Log that we managed to get some reading done, even though I haven't been very consistent with blogging this year. I feel like the older girls are starting to branch out more in their reading choices, away from the comfort of series books and into books with more meat to them, which I'm LOVING! It also continues to be good strategy to leave non-fiction I'd like them to read strewn around, or faced outward on the bookshelf, like they do at the library. Susanna has also blossomed book-wise this year. Whereas before she would come listen to a story if I called her, now she initiates read aloud time. It was hard to be patient for that to happen. Now I'm just waiting for letter and phoneme recognition to click. It'll come. I can tell she's moving in the right direction.
For myself, I wish I could find some really great adult fiction, but I've bombed out quite badly in that area this year. I don't mind angst, and problems, and sticky issues, but I need a little hope tossed in too. Any suggestions for me? (And please, no Christian fiction suggestions! Everything I read in that genre this year based on recommendations was so poorly written I wanted to tear my hair out.)
In January I will have been blogging for two years, and it's still a love/hate activity for me. I still feel like I'm on the fringes of the book blogging world, (have you noticed how cliquish it can be?) but I have really enjoyed getting to know people better as we interact on each other's blogs. I need to get better at commenting on other's blogs on a more consistent basis. One of the down sides of subscribing by email is that it has made me lazy in that area. I love getting all the blogs in one place, but I really need to work on then clicking over and commenting. So that's a blogging goal for next year.
2013, I sure hope you're a better bargain than 2012.
I suspect this wasn't an easy post to write, but I'm so glad you did because I can TOTALLY relate. 2012 was, to put it bluntly, kind of sucky. I've been struggling with an undiagnosed chronic illness that's left me unable to work and put quite a strain on us financially. Throw in a sick dog (who thankfully made a full recovery) and two broken down cars, and 2012 has been the year of money stress. I'm hopeful that 2013 will bring good things, and I am officially ready for this year to be over!
ReplyDeleteI hope that you fall in love with blogging again in the new year, because I really enjoy what you write!
Oh, Katie, I feel for you! (I did almost pull this post after I published it, because it was a little too real, if you know what I mean.) I hope they can find what's causing the problem. Living with uncertainty is so rough on the psyche. I'm hoping 2013 will be better to you, too.
DeleteThanks for sharing you thoughts about the year. I also have a really hard time finding adult fiction that doesn't make me roll my eyes. Even when the writing it good, I usually can't take all the angst. I take care of small children and adult problems bore me these days. That sounds awful of me, I know, but it's the truth. I really like Georgette Heyer, but I've read them all at least 2x so I'm sticking with YA and MG books, for now. :)
ReplyDeleteI feel the same way. I can't take the seemingly unceasing depression of adult fiction. But I know there are good books out there. I just need to find them. Georgette Heyer is definitely one of my go-tos for a reliably satisfying read, but like you, I've read them lots. (My other oldie but goodie is the Williamsburg series by Elswyth Thane. It's out of print, but you can find them in the library usually. But again I've read them umpteen million times.)
DeleteOh, I have never heard of the Williamsburg series. Thank you for the suggestion. My biggest criteria for grown-up books is that they don't make me want to yell, "Get over yourself!" at the characters. It's hard to imagine yelling that at anyone under the age of 25 who is still learning about how to be a person, so kids books are safe for me. :)
DeleteAdult book recommendation: Wolf Hall and Bring Up The Bodies. I've found a lot of contemporary fiction I've read recently to be disappointing, but loved these two.
ReplyDeleteWishing you the best in 2013!
Thanks for the suggestions. I saw these on Adrienne's blog a couple months ago and they sounded good, and then I read your post on them. They're definitely on my to-read-soon list.
DeleteI've been disappointed in my "grown-up" reading this year too. Time after time I picked up a book that garnered great reviews only to put it down halfway through. One book I did finish--and enjoyed immensely--was Where'd You Go, Bernadette? by Maria Semple.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the suggestion, Cath. I'll check it out.
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